Candid frame of a couple laughing together

Posing

Anniversary photoshoot poses

Same grammar as any couple session, with more permission to be still — long relationships photograph well precisely because the awkwardness is gone.

In short: Same grammar as any couple session, with more permission to be still — long relationships photograph well precisely because the awkwardness is gone.

Forehead to forehead

Quiet, intimate, no face management required.

Walking and talking

The workhorse. Real conversation, shot in bursts.

One behind the other, arms around

Both faces in the same focal plane.

Seated at a table, leaning in

Uses a real location and occupies the hands.

The whisper

Say something the photographer cannot hear.

Apart, looking at each other

A metre of space. It reads differently from every close frame and it breaks up a set.

The order to run them in

Start with forehead to forehead — the first two minutes are warm-up and the first pose should be the one that asks least of anyone. Move to walking and talking and one behind the other, arms around once the shoulders have dropped, and keep apart, looking at each other for the end, when self-consciousness has gone. Shoot each one in bursts through the movement rather than holding it: the usable frames sit between the instructions, not on them.

Camera height and distance

Two metres back with the lens zoomed rather than close and wide — distance is what keeps facial proportions natural. Camera at or slightly above eye level for portraits, at chest height for full length. Below eye level enlarges whatever is nearest the lens, which is rarely what you want in frame.

What to avoid

The dip kiss and any recreation of a stock-photograph pose. After ten years together those look borrowed, and the whole value of the session is that it is not.

The mistakes that cost the most

Treating it as a formal portrait sitting. Choosing a location neither of you has been to. And planning it around a restaurant booking, so the whole shoot is rushed before a table at seven.

Next step

See if a session makes sense

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