Black and white frame of a couple under an arch

Posing

Proposal photoshoot poses

There is no posing during the proposal itself. Everything below applies to the fifteen minutes afterwards.

In short: There is no posing during the proposal itself. Everything below applies to the fifteen minutes afterwards.

Hold each other and do nothing

Emotion is already there. Any instruction breaks it.

Hands together, ring visible

Close crop, no presenting to camera.

Forehead to forehead

Reliable, quiet, needs no direction.

Walking, holding hands

Movement while the adrenaline is still high.

Sitting where it happened

Roots the portraits to the place.

Laughing about it

Ask what they were thinking. The answer is always worth photographing.

The order to run them in

Start with hold each other and do nothing — the first two minutes are warm-up and the first pose should be the one that asks least of anyone. Move to hands together, ring visible and forehead to forehead once the shoulders have dropped, and keep laughing about it for the end, when self-consciousness has gone. Shoot each one in bursts through the movement rather than holding it: the usable frames sit between the instructions, not on them.

Camera height and distance

Two metres back with the lens zoomed rather than close and wide — distance is what keeps facial proportions natural. Camera at or slightly above eye level for portraits, at chest height for full length. Below eye level enlarges whatever is nearest the lens, which is rarely what you want in frame.

What to avoid

Asking for a re-enactment. It photographs as an re-enactment, and both people know it. If the moment was missed, shoot the reaction and the portraits instead and be honest about it.

The mistakes that cost the most

Choosing a location with no hiding place. Not agreeing a signal. Proposing with the sun behind you, so both faces are in shadow. And booking nothing for afterwards, so the portraits happen in a car park.

Next step

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